Ladies, why do we insist on getting jealous when we know what we've got at home? Why do we play into the hands of the petty girl and I call her girl because a woman never wants whats already taken. We allow all this anger to build up inside of us because we're afraid of what we may lose. Well dammit if we lose it, it was never ours in the first place and good riddance.
To play the role of the jealous woman serves us no purpose and it makes you seem out of control, over bearing and over protective. I understand that you want to punch that girl in her face when she starts whispering in your boyfriends ear in front of your face or make it her place to touch him excessively but that's' what she wants you to do. She wants you to lose your cool and your cool points with your man. If you remain calm and in control he knows what he's got. A man loves a woman with confidence.
What's really important is that your man checks her. If he backs away or pulls you closer than you've got a keeper. If he's laughing up a storm and soaking up the attention, than you've got yourself a loser with a capital L.
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I use to be the jealous type
Good thing you left that in the past Hunni, cause it is not a nice trait to have!
We are all Jealous in our own ways. Like you said you need to play it cool and not show it. The best advice is act like a Lady and be Classy about it. Remember, always maintain your composure and smile. You will come out a winner.
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