October 13, 2008

Is Cheating Okay?


So of course like most women I've been cheated on and the feeling is not so pleasant. What I wonder is, are there ever any circumstances where cheating is okay? If I cheat on my boyfriend because he cheated on me is that okay? If I cheat because he doesn't spend enough time with me, is that okay? If I cheat because he isn't good in bed, is that okay?

I wonder if there is a ever a situation where you can justify cheating. I think not! Cheating is cheating, no matter when its' done. I always say, if I feel the urge to cheat its' time for me to move on. If the person you are with is lacking why put yourself through all the headache, just K.I.T (keep it moving). Cheating can be detrimental, it lowers self-esteem and brings out the crazy side of you or me..lol. I think its' one of the most disrespectful things to do, along with lying straight to my face. I'd rather someone told me they didn't want to be with me than have me hoodwinked into believing I'm in a committed relationship. It is a sad thing when people come to tell you what your significant other is doing behind your back.

I hear it all that time that all men cheat but I'm praying that there is one out there who can keep his friend in his pants and think about the consequences of his actions before he shoots his gun. And by all means, not to single men out, woman are cheaters too, we're just better at it. So men, if she suddenly stops caring about spending time with you or just stops caring in general...heads up, she's either doing it or about to give you the ax. To all my cheaters out there, think about what you're doing because remember Karma is a ....

7 comments:

studadon said...

LMAO!!!! This topic will never get old, because for some odd reason people beleive that it's natural for two individuals to be exclusively committed to one another until the day they die.... Maybe in a perfect world.

Slymnsexxy said...

That's such a pessimistic view. Ogf course you can be committed to someone. Its a choice to cheat nobody puts a gun to the cheaters head. Its all about self control.

Da Hunni Toya said...

NO MATTER WHAT THE REASON IS FOR YOU CHEATING IT ISNT OKAY TO CHEAT. BUT SOME PEOPLE STILL CHEAT LIKE THAT STUFF IS KUTE..

studadon said...

I agree cheating is a choice, but so is breathing. Think about it. Why do we continue to fight nature and a natural way of being with our limited outlook on life and narrow idologies.... Just food for thought.

Slymnsexxy said...

Sorry studa, I must disagree with you, breathing is an involunatry action. There is no control over that it must be done in order to survive. That is the law of nature, doing something that harms someone is not at all the law of nature thats' a choice that someone makes. And limited outlooks at life are believing that someone cannot control those actions, its' like saying war is inevitable when it isn't people fight wars, if people chose not to fight them then there wouldn't be any, some food for your thought :)

studadon said...

Well thank you hun. Your food was excellent, and I welcome it anytime.

Slymnsexxy said...

You welcome studadon, that's what I do!...lol