October 13, 2008
Is Cheating Okay?
So of course like most women I've been cheated on and the feeling is not so pleasant. What I wonder is, are there ever any circumstances where cheating is okay? If I cheat on my boyfriend because he cheated on me is that okay? If I cheat because he doesn't spend enough time with me, is that okay? If I cheat because he isn't good in bed, is that okay?
I wonder if there is a ever a situation where you can justify cheating. I think not! Cheating is cheating, no matter when its' done. I always say, if I feel the urge to cheat its' time for me to move on. If the person you are with is lacking why put yourself through all the headache, just K.I.T (keep it moving). Cheating can be detrimental, it lowers self-esteem and brings out the crazy side of you or me..lol. I think its' one of the most disrespectful things to do, along with lying straight to my face. I'd rather someone told me they didn't want to be with me than have me hoodwinked into believing I'm in a committed relationship. It is a sad thing when people come to tell you what your significant other is doing behind your back.
I hear it all that time that all men cheat but I'm praying that there is one out there who can keep his friend in his pants and think about the consequences of his actions before he shoots his gun. And by all means, not to single men out, woman are cheaters too, we're just better at it. So men, if she suddenly stops caring about spending time with you or just stops caring in general...heads up, she's either doing it or about to give you the ax. To all my cheaters out there, think about what you're doing because remember Karma is a ....