If I Were A Boy?

I wasn't a real fan of the Beyonce "If I were a boy" song until I saw the video, which is awesome. The video begins with her in the male role, flirting a little, not picking up her phone when her boyfriend calls and then switches midway to her being in the female role. It made me wonder if men ever put themselves in a woman's' position. I think in most relationships men have the upper hand. They usually have less invested in the relationship and can easily detach themselves from the other person.

For my male readers, I'd like to know if you've ever been in the vulnerable position? Have you ever felt disrespected by your significant other as far as cheating was concerned? How would you feel if you were in some of the predicaments women find themselves in? Do you ever understand where a woman is coming from and just choose to ignore it? It would be interesting to see how men view relationships. Add your comments and give my female readers some insight!